
I have been working in the workforce for more than 31 years. My first three jobs lasted around three months each. The fourth one lasted more than 30 years, when I climbed up the ladder from secretary to executive.
Many people asked how I managed to stay in the same company for so long, I told them my motto was: Everyday is a new day. But most of all, it was because I learned to be positive.
To Learn
To remain employable, you have to learn new skills. Make it a point to look out for courses relevant to your work, such as computer and communication skills, negotiation techniques and ask your company to sponsor you for them.
On a personal level, consider taking courses on wellness. These will improve your health and well-being. Or take up a new sport to keep fit and make new contacts.
Observe Others
By observing others, especially your supervisors and bosses, you can pick up many tips, including leadership traits. Adopt the good qualities and avoid repeating the mistakes. You will also get along with your colleague better, especially those from other departments. Networking with people at different levels helps you to get things done faster.
Select Your Friends
You spend a lot of time in the office. So, it is good to have a few "positive" friends who will support and give you encouragement in times of crisis. They could also be your lunch mates, with whom you share your joys and woes. This is also a good time to de-stress and enjoy meals together. Avoid people who project low energy levels and are not receptive to new ideas. They will hinder your progress.
Influence Others
This refers to getting others on your side, especially if you are on a project. Influencing others in the team can lead to common goals being achieved and time-lines observed. Being influential also shows your leadership qualities that your supervisor and bosses will appreciate.
Trust Your Instincts
When you have new ideas, when things go wrong or when you are in a dilemma about making a decision, go with your gut feel. But make sure you consult your supervisor or boss. Explain why you are taking the approach and get their approval before proceeding.
Invest Your Time Well
Prioritise the tasks allocated to you. If need be, delegate some to those who are the "experts" in specific areas. Striking a balance between work and family. By having quality time at home and at work, you will be able to perform your tasks better.
Do not fall into the trap of just concentrating on your work and neglecting your family. The price you pay may be too high.
Value Yourself
Learn to feel good about yourself. When you value your achievements, you can tap on your strengths and develop then further. If you have low-esteem, it will show in your performance. High self-esteem makes you keen to take on new challenges.
Even if you make mistakes, learn from them. Many successful people have failed and picked themselves up to achieve greater height.
Enjoy Your Works
Last but not least, enjoy what you do. When you are unhappy at work, it is time to move on. So, while you are on the job, take pride in it and give it your best shot.
Source: ST/ANN
*Article contributed by June Goh, a certified professional trainer with the Quest Group.
